Oooh, thanks!

I gotta turn that down to one!

any double shots today??

Dedicated by
   Darlene..

Darlene is always in the bar!!!!!!!!!

How was the beach house??

Hello all. I am trying to shake my feelings towards what happened at the end of my work day but it got brought back up this morning and I am a bit irritated. Trying to get past that because I already have to worry because my husband has his doctor's appointment today for his pulmonary test.

Good Morning everyone, a bit tired this morning, we didn't get home until about 11;30 last night. It was a good concert, Neal McCoy put on a really good show and he was funnier than heck! Taylor did a good job too! It's funny to watch someone in the beginning of their career. I hope she stays true to herself.

Morning all. Well I start back with student meetings today. My son starts freshman year II today. Emily moved up to another class. I had a bad night and stayed at home cause he would not let me take E back with me. I am gonna call a lawyer today. I am really busy and am trying to stay here, but this is crap!


I'll be back...praying for you all.

I sopke with GD last night...I hope she is better.

Sparky wrote:

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What happened yesterday Woo? I couldn't find it posted.

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I didn't post it. So I guess I will grab some opinions now:


Yesterday my husband told me that we had to drive separately because he had a meeting at the Grand Blanc shop. Our car is still not fixed because we don't have the part yet. But he gave it a tune up and has been running.

I told him that I would drive the car because I didn't have any stops to make. As long as it started I was good.

I didn't see him all day but that wasn't too unusual.

He had a haircut appt scheduled for 5:30pm and I have the checkbook.

We are scheduled to get off at 4:15 pm but it is very common for me to be waiting here for him till 5pm.

From 4:15 until 5pm I waited for him. At 4:30 I started calling his work phone, desk phone and the Middle Rd shop phone looking for him. I got no answer. I thought he might be at the Middle Rd shop because he needs to train the new manager. His cell often doesn't pick up in there.

The longer this goes on the more upset I get. Not angry just upset. I turned on my personal cell but then I thought to call the boss and see if she knew where he was, but of course she doesn't answer.

So I went into the main office and she is standing there with a coworker and I ask. The coworker said that the last she had heard was that he was at the Grand Blanc shop. My boss then says that she heard that he wasn't coming back. I was ticked because he didn't tell me and no one else did either. I thought that he only had a meeting and that he would be coming in especially since I was driving a car that possibly might not start. I was ok with taking it thinking if it doesn't start he will be there to get it going.

Anyway after talking to them I go out to see if the car will start and I call him on his personal cell. He is at home! The car starts but I am upset anyway. He said that he thought I would be home by now and that he tried calling my personal cell. He assumed that I was working late. But he never calls me at my desk. He said that he got no missed calls on his work cell and I did not have any missed calls on my cell. Part of excuse was that he never said that he was coming in. Whatever!

He ends up paying cash for his haircut while I drive home ticked off. We didn't speak anymore about it. I tried letting it go but it came up this morning. He doesn't think I had any right to be upset!

*note to you guys- don't EVER try to tell a female she doesn't have a right to feel what she feels! It was a good thing we were going our separate ways at work.

I can see how things got a bit screwy but was I crazy for being upset? I never yelled at him. I was just upset.

 

Woo, when stuff like that happens with me and my husband, we both usually just give up on it. But, it does take both of us. We both say we're sorry, and we let it go, otherwise we'd end up arguing about arguing, and it just gets nowhere.

I know he didn't do it on purpose. I also did drop it after I got a hold of him on the phone. I had that time to cool off before he got back from his haircut. The reason it came up this morning was my fault. He was joking with me in the car about me being afraid of losing him somewhere. I joked as well saying well i kinda did for awhile yesterday. He then went on to tell me that he didn't think I had a right to be upset.

Jeremy Riggs wrote:

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Well, I agree that's not the right thing to say either.

You can't help how you feel. His telling you that you have no reason to be upset is only going to make you more upset.

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thank you for that!

 

ha ha! my current avatar could be hinding something behind her back besides pom poms!

-- Edited by Woo Hoo at 09:26, 2007-08-21

Yay!

I'm on my new DSL modem and I don't lose connection when I go to MySpace pages.

I guess its time for a new modem at home now too because it does the same thing.