Seperation is hard and break ups are never easy Mel.

Maybe with time, things can improve...but for now, just be glad she is safe.

Mel- years ago I spent 2 yrs in hell to come to realize-

-the person you fell in love with and the person you broke up with are 2 different people. Who you are missing doesn't exist anymore, they exist merely in your memories. Heck, you might not even like who they even are now.

 Sooner or later you will wake up and feel soooo sick and tired of feeling sick and tired that the simple things, like sunlight, birds chirping in trees, the simple fact you are among all that is; this realization will be worth the pain right now. That is the blessing of pain, the rediscovery of life.

-- Edited by JD The Jazz Doctor at 08:37, 2006-03-10

Can't add much to what was already said, but STAY STRONG! You will get through this Mel.