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I CAN'T believe this story...I thought I had seen it all


Sheriff: Woman Sat on Toilet for 2 Years

By ROXANA HEGEMAN, AP
3 hours ago

WICHITA, Kan. Authorities are considering charges in the bizarre case of a woman who sat on her boyfriend's toilet for two years so long that her body was stuck to the seat by the time the boyfriend finally called police.

Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple said it appeared the 35-year-old Ness City woman's skin had grown around the seat. She initially refused emergency medical services but was finally convinced by responders and her boyfriend that she needed to be checked out at a hospital.

"We pried the toilet seat off with a pry bar and the seat went with her to the hospital," Whipple said. "The hospital removed it."

Whipple said investigators planned to present their report Wednesday to the county attorney, who will determine whether any charges should be filed against the woman's 36-year-old boyfriend.

"She was not glued. She was not tied. She was just physically stuck by her body," Whipple said. "It is hard to imagine. ... I still have a hard time imagining it myself."

He told investigators he brought his girlfriend food and water, and asked her every day to come out of the bathroom.

"And her reply would be, `Maybe tomorrow,'" Whipple said. "According to him, she did not want to leave the bathroom."

The boyfriend called police on Feb. 27 to report that "there was something wrong with his girlfriend," Whipple said, adding that he never explained why it took him two years to call.

Police found the clothed woman sitting on the toilet, her sweat pants down to her mid-thigh. She was "somewhat disoriented," and her legs looked like they had atrophied, Whipple said.

"She said that she didn't need any help, that she was OK and did not want to leave," he said.

She was reported in fair condition at a hospital in Wichita, about 150 miles southeast of Ness City. Whipple said she has refused to cooperate with medical providers or law enforcement investigators.

Authorities said they did not know if she was mentally or physically disabled.

Police have declined to release the couple's names, but the house where authorities say the incident happened is listed in public records as the residence of Kory McFarren. No one answered his home phone number.

The case has been the buzz of Ness City, said James Ellis, a neighbor.

"I don't think anybody can make any sense out of it," he said.

Ellis said he had known the woman since she was a child but that he had not seen her for at least six years.

He said she had a tough childhood after her mother died at a young age and apparently was usually kept inside the house as she grew up. At one time the woman worked for a long-term care facility, he said, but he did not know what kind of work she did there.

"It really doesn't surprise me," Ellis said. "What surprises me is somebody wasn't called in a bit earlier."



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Obviously she has psychological problems. And I do think her boyfriend should be charged with negligence for waiting so long to call. Though by staying with someone who wouldn't leave a toilet seat for 2 years, that goes beyond being loyal, so maybe he has some problems himself.

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Boy I think she's gonna have a little more than ring around the collar! nod.gif

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hey, when you gotta go, you gotta go....smile.gif

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What?! That can't be true!

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How can anyone sleep on a toilet? Eat on a toilet? She must not have bathed?

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Thats what I was thinking too, Spark.

Imagine how nasty the inside of that toilet had to be if she literally never got off of it and it was never cleaned in two years.

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Ok, the next question is.....where did he go? The Amoco station?

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Sparky wrote:

Ok, the next question is.....where did he go? The Amoco station?



Off the back porch, of course.

 



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Sparky wrote:

Ok, the next question is.....where did he go? The Amoco station?



i was thinking that too, but then the whole thing just disturbed me and I left the thread. bleh

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this is really sad cry.gif and disturbing...

i googled it and found another article on abc news that elaborated a bit more...

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McFarren, 36, said he can't be certain how long Pam Bab**** stayed in the bathroom because "time just went by so quick I can't pinpoint how long." He said beatings she received in her childhood caused her phobia.

"It just kind of happened one day; she went in and had been in there a little while, the next time it was a little longer. Then she got it in her head she was going to stay like it was a safe place for her," McFarren said.

But McFarren said she moved around in the bathroom during that time, bathed and changed into the clothes he brought her. He brought food and water to her. They had conversations and had an otherwise normal relationship except it all happened in the bathroom.

McFarren said he finally called police Feb. 27 after he became worried because Bab**** was acting groggy like she didn't know what was going on, except she was awake.

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He totally should've gotten her psychiatric help early on.  He must have big problems, too.

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But then again, it's like the enabler who brings the overweight person food in bed - those 700-900 pound people who can't move...  Someone has to allow it to go on, bringing the food, because the person obviously can't do it themself.



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The ABC version really helps clarify. That makes a lot more sense.

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MzHartz wrote:

 

Sparky wrote:

Ok, the next question is.....where did he go? The Amoco station?



Off the back porch, of course.

 

 



So men do that everywhere too! no.gif

 



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Sheriff Recommends Charge in Toilet Case

The home of Kory McFarren is pictured on Thursday, March 13, 2008, in Ness C...
By ROXANA HEGEMAN, AP
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NESS CITY, Kan. A man should be charged for allowing his girlfriend to sit on their toilet so long that her body became stuck to the seat, the sheriff said Thursday.

Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple was among authorities who discovered the woman last month living in the bathroom of a mobile home she shared with her boyfriend, Kory McFarren.

"The house was cluttered but not in shambles," he said. "The smell was overpowering a terrible smell about the house, obviously coming from where she was at."

McFarren, 36, told police his girlfriend, Pam Bab****, 35, had a phobia about leaving the bathroom and may not have left the bathroom in two years, although he's unsure how long she was in there.

He said during that time, he brought her food, water, and clean clothes.

"The only thing I am guilty of is I didn't get her help sooner," he told The Associated Press on Thursday.

The sheriff said that judging by the woman's condition she had open sores on which the toilet seat would stick it appeared she likely sat on the toilet continually for at least a month.

"She would have to be sleeping on the toilet," the sheriff said.

Whipple asked the county attorney to charge McFarren for mistreatment of a dependent adult. The prosecutor did not return phone calls seeking comment.

"The unfortunate thing is this truly is a case of two people, in my opinion, with diminished mental capacity," Whipple said.

McFarren, who works at an antique store, said he has been taking care of Bab**** for the 16 years they have lived together. He insisted that he tried to coax her out of the bathroom every day. The home has a second bathroom.

McFarren said he finally called police Feb. 27 after he became worried because Bab**** was acting groggy, as if she didn't know what was going on around her.

What emergency responders found when they entered the bathroom has left many in the town of about 1,500 people buzzing and authorities incredulous.

Whipple said the seat was taken off the toilet so the woman could be transported to the hospital for treatment.

Doctors at the Wichita hospital told the boyfriend an infection in her legs has damaged her nerves and may leave her in a wheelchair, he said.

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