Thanks. The most difficult thing is realizing the person I allowed in is now using every tactic to fight dirty--something that I never thought she was capable of. I REALLY hate that my kids are in the crossfire. but, today I spoke with someone and he agreed with the advice I received here. FIGHT. He said my children will never respect a father or man that doesn't fight.
So, as I prepare my battle plan, I call out: SEMPER FI.