I'd suppose its really more about the person anyway. I tend to agree with Fuzzy in that I prefer guys who are more secure in themselves, are basically established in life, and don't dress foolishly. That tends to be men who are older than me. Presently, the guys I know who are right around my age tend to be the neurotic, recently divorced, looking for someone to take care of the kids on their weekends set. I have a hard time dating anyone younger than me because of my kids... it's just too weird.