In typical Thursday fashion, I'm bummed out. Probably depressed. Brian's fighting with some friends of his (which is very unusual for him, I don't know if I've ever known him to fight with a friend). They're friends of mine too, in-so-much-as I would hang out with them sometimes when Brian would hang out with them. They say they're not mad at me, Brian says he doesn't mind if I still go do things with them, but I don't think that will happen.
So I'm heartbroken, and going a bit further, I'm feeling like I don't have many of my own friends. My 30th birthday is this year, and the plan was to have a party. But at the last birthday party I threw, 3 people showed up, 2 of the 3 were married to each other, and the third was a friend of theirs that wanted to visit with them so they brought him along. So if I had a party, I'm afraid that no one would show up. Okay, sure, I have friends, but not many that are an hour or less's drive away.
Sorry, I'm throwing myself a bit of a pity party this morning. Just needed a little therapy.
Hi, hi. We broke a couple snow records yesterday -- Tulsa has received 26.1 inches of snow during the entire season. This breaks the record set in 1923-24, 25.6 inches.
I know it is nothing compared to most of y'all, but keep in mind, we really don't ever get but a couple snow storms a season and our winters for the most part are quite mild -- 40ish. Some places received over 20" yesterday. Glad it wasn't our place. My car is still parked and I'm coming to work BEFORE the crack of dawn with Mr. DS.
60's by the weekend! Yay!
I'm sorry you're feeling down, Mz. Mr. DS and I are quite introverted. We don't have a mutual couple we do things with -- he has his friends and I have my friend, but even then, we are really eachother's only company. It's not really as pathetic as it sounds; it works for us.
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Oh man DS, I don't envy all that snow of yours. Like I said before, that groundhog better be right!
Brian is the type of person to make friends with anybody. I'm just now realizing that a lot of the people I consider to be my friends are actually his friends. I just need to be more aware of that.
We're still fighting this skin issue with her. Our vet has done more research and they think the problem is the cortisone meds she's on makes her unable to fight the bacteria on her skin which leads to an infection. She's on the cortisone because of her severe allergies which was causing her to vomit her food.
I just talked to the vet now and the next plan is to get her on antibiotics again to help with the skin infection, and also start trying to reduce the cortisone meds. I know that will eventually mean that she'll be back to vomiting her food every few days again because of the allergies.
Yeah, crazy! But I'd much rather have this much snow than one inch of freezing rain
I mostly feel bad for the animals in this kind of weather. Especially cows because they are so dumb -- but tasty Just had to throw that out there to see if I could get Lady Strange to poke her head by and say hi (after she scolds me)...
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We're still fighting this skin issue with her. Our vet has done more research and they think the problem is the cortisone meds she's on makes her unable to fight the bacteria on her skin which leads to an infection. She's on the cortisone because of her severe allergies which was causing her to vomit her food.
I just talked to the vet now and the next plan is to get her on antibiotics again to help with the skin infection, and also start trying to reduce the cortisone meds. I know that will eventually mean that she'll be back to vomiting her food every few days again because of the allergies.
Aw, poor puppy! I'm surprised that the only allergy medicine they have for dogs is cortisone. I can't remember, do you know what she's allergic to?
We don't know specifically what she's allergic to, but we've tried many different kinds of food . . . even $60/bag specialty stuff for allergic dogs.
The vet said that there is another kind of allergy med that we could try that is not cortisone based. She said "It is expensive, but I'd have to call and check to see how much it would be based on your dog's weight/dosage." She did check. This other drug for our dog would be about $175/month. We love our dog, but we can't justify spending that much/month for the rest of her life. The vet did say there is a generic that would "only" be $115/month, but she's reading reports that it is not working as well.
So, I don't really know where we're going with this. For now, get her on antibiotics, and start backing off the cortisone to hopefully find a balance that is tolerable for both her and us.
It sucks that the cure for one thing is the cause of another.
Our dog sometimes gets skin irritations; we give him a benadryl capsule and it helps with the scratching.
Ear infections are his big problem. We were taking him to the vet every three months for a while and he kept having to take antibiotics and their high-dollar earwash. We finally quit the vet and Mr. DS concocted his own earwash.
Ask the vet about the benadryl for the scratching...
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Is there an allergy test for dogs like there is for humans? It's probably pretty expensive, but theoretically, it would only be a one time charge and might be cheaper in the long run.
Mz - we're your friends. However, we also fit into that more than an hour's drive to see you category. I do understand your feeling though. I have friends, but most of the ones I'd like to be with more are over an hour's drive too. After I graduated from college, I drifted away from many friends. Then I moved. I'm not good with making new friends. It takes me a while. It is sad really. Some of the friends now I really only see when we are all out. Most of them are married and we don't really hang out.
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Twice a day, she get's a benadryl, the cortisone pill, and a Thyroid pill (this just started two weeks ago). Today, we'll start another round of antibiotics on top of that.
She had never been tested for Thyroid until we found her to be low (like almost none) a couple weeks ago. I still have a little hope that maybe she's had Thyroid problems all along, and getting her Thyroid level up where it's supposed to be could possibly help with some of these other issues. It's probably just wishful thinking, but that's about the only unknown hope I still have at this point.
I'm a little ticked at my vet right now. I know she's trying to help us solve this, but yet, when I talk to her she's asking things like:
"Now, why did we put her on the cortisone?" Because she couldn't keep her food down
"There is a specialty food that we could try ..." We already tried that.
"Is this hair loss a new thing?" (her hair is very thin everywhere to non existent in places) No, she started losing hair when we put her on the cortisone, but you told me that was a cortisone side effect we'd have to live with.
We've had this same vet since we got Allie as a puppy. I'm just disappointed that the vet doesn't remember all this stuff we've been through and tried . . . or AT LEAST look back at the records to refresh herself to know why we are where we are.
Is there an allergy test for dogs like there is for humans? It's probably pretty expensive, but theoretically, it would only be a one time charge and might be cheaper in the long run.
I don't know, It's never been asked or talked about with our vet.
Since she vomited almost every kind of food we tried, I guess we kind of figured that knowing exactly what the allergies are wouldn't really matter. We tried beef based, cereal based, chicken based, and she seems to do best on the "lamb and rice".
I'm not offering this as a solution, I'm just curious: Have you tried making your own dog food?
The thing about the allergy test is that maybe she's not allergic to a food. With her record, the poor thing's probably allergic to dust or carpet fibers or something.
All in all, another vet's perspective might be nice. Someone who might think of something that the other vet hasn't.
Don't you wish you could put pets on your family health insurance?
I'm not offering this as a solution, I'm just curious: Have you tried making your own dog food?
Many moons past, I had a friend -- I used to call her my hippie friend because she was all wholistic and new age before it was the "in thing" -- who made her own dog food. Just the thought brings back the smell; but her dogs were healthy and shiny
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No, Mz . . . we've never tried making our own food. We didn't even think about it as an option.
I got the antibiotics so the first thing is to kill the active stuff.
The first year of her life, she had no problems. We had her on IAMS puppy food. After she turned a year old, I got a bag of adult food. I opened the bag of adult food, and then poured what was left of the puppy food on top of that so as we got through the puppy food, she'd start getting a mix of the two for a few days. You might remember, (but I don't expect you to) . . . a LONG time ago, I posted pics of her with that horrible rash. We woke up one morning to find her covered in huge welts. These welts were about the size of 1/2 a golf ball all over her body. She was fine when we went to bed. The ONLY thing that had changed when she broke out in those welts was that we had gotten down the bag to the new adult dog food.
At at that point, we just figured there was an issue with the IAMS adult food. We switched to Science Diet brand and she got a long fine for a while. Then, she gradually started vomiting more and more. When she'd vomit, she'd leave what was basically just a fairly solid pile of undigested food. It was like she just couldn't digest it. Over time, we tried different kinds of Science Diet brand foods with the same results. That is when our vet did some research and came up with the allergic to foods diagnosis and we started the Prednisolone (cortisone) meds.
The cortisone really did solve the vomiting problem. Over time, we had to gradually giver her a little more med, but it seemed to work good with the only side effect of the hair loss. Our vet told us that we should continue to try to give as low a dose as possible, but there should not be a long-term problem with the cortisone. Now, she is saying that her research is indicating that the long-term use of the cortisone can effect the immune system which usually comes out in infections in the hair follicles. This is exactly where I think we are.
Thinking through all this got the troubleshooter in me stirred up. I can't help but think back to that first year and how she was fine then on the IAMS puppy food. Granted, she was just a puppy, still young, full of energy, and generally more healthy . . . but I can't help but wonder what would happen if we went back to the last known working condition and started over again.
I talked the vet about this when I picked up the antibiotics. I told her I want to try going back to that place . . . IAMS puppy food, and work her back off the cortisone and see what happens. I don't expect her to be fine there again, but who knows? The vet said that would be fine to try with the only issue being if it works and we do that long term, she'll probably get fat from the extra energy in the puppy food. I said I'd rather deal with her being over weight, then what we have going on now.
Sooooooooooo, I picked up a small bag of IAMS puppy and over the next week or two, I'll slowly back her off the cortisone. If she starts vomiting this food, then we'll know it didn't work. We'll know pretty soon too because there have been several times where I missed one dose of the cortisone during the day, and she vomited up food later that night.
Good day Ladies, Gentleman and whatever you are Scooter.
MZ, sorry you're a bit bummed. I'm not exactly swimming in friends myself. Though I've always kind of preferred my alone time so it's never really bothered me. But if I threw a party and told family they couldn't come I'd probably have four MAYBE five people attend. In some ways I like that though. Seems to me like people who have a LOT of friends find the relationships are fairly superficial. The friends I do have, though few in number, are truly good friends. People I'd go into battle with!
DS, I've been thinking about you when I read the paper and watch the news. Yeesh, that's a lotta snow. I didn't realize you guys got snow at all. I thought I heard on the news that when it snows there you just wait for it to melt because your state has no real snow plowing equipment. Is that true?
WEB, poor Allie. I hope something works for her soon. You guys have been dealing with this a long time, there's got to be some kind of solution. Stuff like this drives me CRAZY. I always think to myself "am I REALLY the only person to experience this? Is this the FIRST time you've seen this problem?". Like EVERY time I take my car in for repair and amazingly they just can't figure out the problem.
In this day of the internet I would think diagnosing and curing would be easier than ever. Surely other vets around the country have dealt with this issue themselves. SOMEBODY has to have some clear idea of how to deal with it. GRRR.
That's about right, JR. Our average annual snowfall around Tulsa is only about 8 inches, and that usually comes in a few storms and then the temps warm up quickly and melts the snow. Not to mention it's usually at least a few weeks between big snow storms (4-6") We don't have many snow plows and the salt & sand trucks couldn't be used until the snow is removed. We're not used to this 5#!T -- Within 8 days we get a blizzard then sucker punched with another round of snow.
But now, the sun is out and it will be in the 60's by the weekend.
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You should fear anything that can bleed for seven days without dying... (as told to Mr. DS on 3-12-10)
Kind of late in the day to be checking in, but better late than never.
I am tuned into Freeze frame right now and was just surprised by a cool song from the Blow Monkeys...Diggin' Your Scene. Nice Song.
Mz...sorry your are feeling blue. 30 seems to be one of those milestones that are just a natural time to assess. I am guessing you have more friends than you think you do. I kind of subscribe to the quality v quantity theory JR raised. The interesting thing is that distance and time arent the obstacles to friendship I used to think they were either. On top of that you have your best friend tight there with you.
Web...sorry the pooch is having the ongoing health issues. Also, I am enjoying the photos you are posting. You have taken some nice shots.
Fuzzy...by now you should be getting the spring training itch. You guys should have quite a year, until you run into the juggernaut otherwise known as the Milwaukee Brewers.
DS, sorry you are getting pounded by the snow...but if it cheers you up, Wisconsin wont get 60 temps until August.
JR...in the grand scheme of Owen's or Carrusso's...You know I would have your back.
Dylan wrote:Fuzzy...by now you should be getting the spring training itch. You guys should have quite a year, until you run into the juggernaut otherwise known as the Milwaukee Brewers.
juggernaut otherwise known as the Milwaukee Brewers
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