I suggested marriage counseling, but he will not go. When his parents got divorced, they made him go to a counselor and he did not like it. He's a quiet guy and doesn't like to talk much. He says that sometimes it's just best not to talk about things. Things had gotten really bad a couple of months ago, but we worked it out. The sad thing is - we communicate better through e-mail while I'm at work. We resolve more that way. I guess it's because there is no yelling. I don't know. I don't feel the same way I did about him when we got married (the whole yahoo thing killed that) and I can't leave. It's a no win situation. Thanks for your help, but I'm stuck and there's nothing to do about it. I've thought of what my life would be like without him and I could do it, but there are other considerations that make it impossible. Anyway, thanks for letting me talk about it, but I think now is the time to stop talking about it. I just wanted to give my perspective on internet sex. I think it's destructive.